MsLady you don’t know what could come handy in court.

Telling young children that their mother is crazy is parental alienation technique and many judges will not look favorably at it. So you must document everything just in case. Abuse doesn’t need to be physical for courts to determine that it’s in fact abusive. I know people who lost custody and only have supervised visitations and there was no physical abuse. So keep documenting

Insisting that you must spend a lot of time with your husband is a manipulative attempt to control you. You don’t have to spend more time than you wish.

I understand it’s a tough time to leave. We are all isolated. But just be prepared in case you can or must leave