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Originally Posted by divine1966
MsLady you don’t know what could come handy in court.
Telling young children that their mother is crazy is parental alienation technique and many judges will not look favorably at it. So you must document everything just in case. Abuse doesn’t need to be physical for courts to determine that it’s in fact abusive. I know people who lost custody and only have supervised visitations and there was no physical abuse. So keep documenting
Insisting that you must spend a lot of time with your husband is a manipulative attempt to control you. You don’t have to spend more time than you wish.
I understand it’s a tough time to leave. We are all isolated. But just be prepared in case you can or must leave
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To clarify, he told "me" I was crazy because I was yelling at him. I was in my third month pregnancy and again, I felt completely defeated and unable to speak because he'd purposely drown me out with nonsense any time I opened my mouth.. and I was just trying to explain myself (defend myself) over something he took offense to. Our daughter was in the room. Then he went to the living room where our door was partially opened and said, "Why are you doing this? I don't understand what's happening," in a victimized tone. I got confused because I thought, "What do you mean? You just called me crazy in front of our daughter," which was when I noticed the door open. His sister lives next door and was outside in her back yard.
So, I'm guilty of yelling when provoked in this sort of way. But now that I'm aware of what's happening, it's going to be so much easier (I think) to not get sucked into it. I don't doubt he's purposely provoking me so I react and give him "proof".
And for the record, the yelling occurs very rarely.