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Old Apr 10, 2020, 01:41 AM
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Roses are falling.
 
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
L and I are having issues. First she laughed at something that I was being honest and serious about, then she let something someone else said sway a decision she made about our relationship, and then she forgot to email me when she said she would. And then we had a 20min phone call today in which instead of addressing my concerns, we addressed her concerns. She actually said that she couldn't address my concerns until we addressed hers first. Now I'll give her the fact that her concern was for my safety, but my concerns which are the three issues, affect our relationship which affects my safety. My dad thinks that maybe she's lost her intuition about me because we're only doing phone and video. I don't know what's going on, but I feel like I'm losing her
I can understand why she also wanted to talk about her concerns first if it's about safety, but I hope you got the chance to talk too.When do you see her next? The laughing and forgetting would also bug me.

If I asked do you trust you'll be able to work it out eventually what's your answer?.
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