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Old Apr 10, 2020, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Lemoncake View Post
I can understand why she also wanted to talk about her concerns first if it's about safety, but I hope you got the chance to talk too.When do you see her next? The laughing and forgetting would also bug me.

If I asked do you trust you'll be able to work it out eventually what's your answer?.
No, I didn't get to talk about my concerns at all. Bit she did say she believes we will work everything out. It's jard when you have no answers, no response. You're just sitting with these hurts and the person who has to make the next move puts it off.

I have a 20min phone session with her at 9am. Then I have video session with her at 1:30pm. Supposedly, we're going to talk about my concerns during the phone call. But I still think it was unfair to make me wait. I don't understand why she just couldn't do back to back 20mins phone session without me paying her. Especially since the first 20mins was me reassuring her.

I do not know if the hurts will be resolved. She says it will be. If I base it off the past, then yes it will be resolved. But while in the thick of it, I'm just not sure. It isn't a no, but it isn't a yes yet.
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