Look into these:

Attachment styles:
Attachment Quiz Ggl

The 4 Horsemen:
The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling

5 Languages of Love:
The 5 Love Languages Quiz – The Mindful Company

And lastly, you need time to heal and reinvent yourself. Instead of finding a "man".. find a hobby/activity/sport where you can meet like-minded people and build a new positive social circle with. Let the man fall into your life, naturally, and after you're able to understand yourself better. If not, the cycle will repeat.