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Old Apr 11, 2020, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by MsLady View Post
I tried online dating as well and married someone from a site. I suffer from social anxiety, too, and it can be debilitating sometimes. I've been fortunate to have children who "forced" me to be more social due to scenarios I couldn't ignore (daycare, school system, etc.)

Try online and practice social skills. Give it plenty of time and maybe a nice date will come of it. Filter very carefully!
I unluckily didn’t have children and I guess it would make me force to go out of my comfort zone much more. I do understand you.

Social anxiety may be so paralysing in many aspects in your life. Nearly everything has to do with relations with people: Most of works, University, friendship, love, many hobbies...
And yes, social skills and facing to these moments of anxiety by using them in the way you may use them in a point in time are helpful. Of course, you are not gonna get cured but you can progress and get some kind of desensitisation to certain circumstances.
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