I am so sorry about your girlfriend and your baby. That must be so hard for you. Everyone deals with loss in different ways. And each relationship will be different. I hate to see you lose out on further relationships because of your hurt but hurt can happen with relationships. Life can be very lonely without people to share it with.

Healing from loss can be difficult to work through. Sometimes talking about it can help either with friends, here or even finding someone professional. It is truly a personal decision on what fits you best. Please keep posting here if it helps.

Welcome to PC.

BB