i met with this new guy therapist yesterday .he seemed ok. he was on the older side but seems to have all his faculties about him. he said he is more of a holistic therapist but has worked with cbt. he asked if i would bring in the paper sheets i have . so we will se .he said if im looking for a strict cbt therapist he would understand if i felt i wouldnt want to work with him and find a more cbt orientated therapist . he asked a lot of questions and it didnt seem so bad . he wore jeans and a kind of zip up sweater shirt thing . kind of how my hubby dresses. at least he wasnt all dressed up . he use to work in a va hospital. and thinking about lonesome tonight he was wearing low tennis sox so i could see his leg when his pant leg was lifted a bit lol