I have suspected for a while that my sister tells people things about me. Every time we had a big fight, she'd drive off to meet one of her friends. I knew she would repeat the lies she tells to me, that I'm a narcissist and that she has the burden of looking after me because I'm abnormally stupid.

This is the lie she has tried to force on me since she persuaded me to go into business with her and kept control of all the income. She can spend as much money as she wants and max put our credit cards, but if I want a few things a year, she blames me for the $70, 000+ of debt we have and calls me a narcissist for refusing to back down when I feel entitled to spend a little of the income I earn. When she spends $10 on iPad accessories or tv subscriptions, she says it's "cheap" and then she yells and rants when I need similar amounts of money for essentials. Then she denies ever telling me I can't spend money.

Just this month, she spent $400+ on her dog and screamed at me for needing $20. Then she ran off to one of her friends to play the victim ahd get sympathy. That's the friend who gave her the marijuana to deal with her "stress". I gathered from what she said that she told them about the reason for our fight and probably repeated all the lies she said to me.

I shouldn't care what people think if they aren't my friends anyways. But it's a small community and I might run into them knowing they probably believe my sister's lies and think I'm an evil person. Still, why should I care what they think? It just bothers me. This person who yelled at me my entire life and attacked me physically multiple times keeps claiming to be a victim. It's so disgusting!