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It's getting to you like that because Cyberdyne Systems hasn't installed your new brain CPU yet.

You're human. Knowing something and feeling something are like the Hatfields and the McCoys - they live in the same county, but they don't really get along very well.

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That's exactly where I am with this exact same issue. I am in the exact same boat and can relate well.

Detaching and the yada yada yada makes complete sense intellectually, but it's a lot harder to implement emotionally.

I'm sorry that your husband is continuing to blame and lash out at you. I know exactly how it feels, because it happens to me to.

You have 100% of my support - I know that it isn't easy. In my case, the good side of my husband makes it all worth it -- I hope that's true for you as well