Do you have anyone who keeps wanting to see you even though you keep telling them no? My sister is doing this. And I find I'm feeling powerless. She thinks of excuses that she has to see me and I feel like I can't keep her away.

If I tell her I just don't like her, she'll become a victim and spread it around to everyone we know what a meany I am. Then she'll call and talk to my husband, flattering him and flirting with him. And I won't be able to handle my anger.

It's really hard to feel ok about myself when everyone I know gets on her side.