((gypsy)) i miss u sista!! i hope all is well with u. thank you for the kind words. yes it was very hard to muster up the courage to ask him for a divorce. right now, because of the way he has reacted, i agreed to a seperation instead of a divorce, even though in my heart my decision is final. he said the most beautiful words to me yesterday and it affected me. but then as usual i remember that he has made all those promises before and never follows through on them. this is so difficult and i am trying to hang on to the rope of sanity between this situation and phasing out of my past job i am completely stressed out.