I agree with what's already been said. I always pay most attention when I hear the same basic advice being repeated to me 2 or 3 times. I've always been one to apologize just because I don't like the negative energies of confrontation around me. When I apologize, I apologize for my actions only; I will even say I'm sorry that what I did has caused you so much pain. That is a good apology, because people interpret the "what I did to cause you so much pain" to mean whatever they are holding me accountable for; and I can interpret in a more limited way. Everyone is happier than before apology.
I don't think that there needs to be a veil. Maybe at first. But not for all time. You'll see.
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