So I emailed T asking her how we handled her emergency back then. I have officially determined that I don't like T very much anymore. I definitely don't want to go back to her unless L does leave. I don't know. But I appreciate L so much more for working through this with me instead of making me push down my feelings. I will do what is necessary to help L,and I know she will do what she needs to do to male sure she's okay. And I'm going to try my hardest not to take it personally.
Btw, something cute... So I've shown L my threads on here. She knows my username and she knows her abbreviation is L. She now uses L as a signature and she sometimes calls herself L...lol. My dad nicknamed her Mary, and she sometimes refers to herself as Mary as well! And she's starting to address me in emails by my initial! I think it's cute that she's learning forum talk