I didn't know there were bears near you blue

If I had a therapist they would probably suggest I went for walks, it's quiet around here. It would take a lot of grooming for me to pass for human though, it takes a very long time

I have been staying in my cave for over 3 weeks (probably longer).. I have not been out at all.
(everyone knows the reason )

I have a good friend with a mental health issue (severe depression and anxiety) who does not post in this section of the board. My friend says they have not been eating right

Papa bear (my husband) organises our meals. I could feel ''useless'' and ''less than'' but he actually enjoys taking care of us both in those ways. I do not even have a credit card. I am not ''proud'' of that, again I could berate myself and say how ....... I am, but it is how our life has evolved. There was a time when there was very little income coming in and having been severely neglected in childhood by very affluent parents (and no other family who cared at all, no siblings) I am used to living with the bare minimum, or less. So i went around in rags, literally, when he had been laid off through no fault of his own. He was a senior director at a large technical company. I had been taught how to ''exist'' on my own, and he needs a LOT of quiet and alone time.....so I left him alone to recover from the assault by the sharks who took over the company and then completely bankrupted it, everyone was laid off eventually,

respect to all