Before anything, thank you for your reply. It was a very direct question and not everyone is ready to reply.
This been said. What you say makes a lot of sense, this is the way I feel also comfortable with while knowing people. I couldn’t go faster, either. It’s ok with me if it weren’t because I have a terrible panic to know new people. So, the probabilities to know like-minded people are largely reduced. And once I know them, even being with them for years, the feeling of acceptance you have with your friends, this is something I can’t ever get.
I know here the main problem is me, I’m a pretty reasonable person in many aspects of my life but not in this.
Thank you again and congratulations!!!