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5. If so, what kind of responses?
Helpful...insightful...uplifting...etc. Or at least someone saying, hey, I've been there too.


9. Would you offer a response that you know would not be received well?
That all depends on my mood. For the most part, I don't want to start or deal with an argument so I keep my mouth shut. There have been several posts/people I have intentionnally not responded to because I didn't think I could be cronstructive or helpful. Because their situations hit too close to home for me. So I did not respond to their posts.

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Hi 1day

First, thanks for your response. I'm wondering if you could be a little more specific in the above replies you gave.

5. What kind of things would you consider helpful or insightful?

9. You said it depends on your mood. So, if you were in the mood to give a response that you felt would not be received well, what kind of things would that response contain and why would you give it if you thought it would not be well received.

Just looking for a little clarification with no intentions of arguing, so you don't need to worry about that.