Hey Pink,

I'm sorry your H won't go with you to marriage counseling. I think Sunny has a great idea. Maybe you two can find some other way to reconnect with one another. If not counseling, or therapy then how about asking him to suggest something that might help you to achieve greater intimacy as a couple.

Or, maybe you can read to each other. You can read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus together, taking turns. That was actually a suggestion from my T for me and H before he came with me to therapy. We actually did read to each other but didn't finish the book...

Peace