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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
I think they enjoyed judging. They enjoyed imposing their judgments on others, maybe to feel better about themselves, or maybe they were just lousy at their job... ''not coping with their job'' 
''value imposition is a type of boundary violation'' 
They did violate my boundaries. Many clients are ''vulnerable'' when they first seek therapy.
''How not to impose your values on clients'' - a good read for some therapists who are struggling to cope with their job... |
I had therapists say things to me that had caused me great rumination, wondering if it is true. For example: “You probably never would have been happy with anybody.” Can’t you see how that would put me into a tailspin?
The most important thing is do YOU believe it?