You cant ! Me and my wife got clean together or so i thought the whole time she was in rehab and 6months after she got .She told me if I ever used again we were done .Which I agreed I've been clean for 2 plus years now plus I love her and wont here back .

Heres the kicker I've been back with her for 6 months now we were fighting all the time .I found that she was using the whole time and lost her job 4 months ago for using in work. What a kick in the head I forgave her and even let her blame me and my bipolar for losing her job so her mom and my kids wont find out the real reason not the first time I though myself under the bus for her .

Its sucks so once again you cant . Boy if she read this so mad at me im not apost to tell know one .