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Originally Posted by Omers
If I was being dismissive of T’s suggestions he would say I am not feeling safe enough with him yet or that we haven’t found the underlying cause of why. He would never tell me I was being dismissive as if I were intentionally being “bad”. Now that we have worked together over a year and are very close with a lot of trust he might gently ask about being seen as dismissive but that would be as direct as he got. If I can’t hear it yet then I am not ready to work on it.
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Good post. This sort of thing has happened to me a few times. Someone being tactless and mean and then accusing me of something with a heavy implication of me being intentionally ''bad'' - like that pos of a therapist I saw irl...
''If I can't hear it yet, then I am not ready to work with it''
And that pos of a T said I .........
I had better not post that here as it could be triggering (It was to me
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