My wife, when feeling... off, I don't know how to describe it, will feel pain "in her head" when I am nice to her. She tells me this makes things worse. I think she may be bi polar and have some form of psychosis. She wont entertain the idea of me helping with this issue in any way and she wont talk to me when she is getting bad and I am getting to the point where I don't know what to do (it's been a few years). When looking online for answers I get the same thing: "focus on positive thoughts to get you through this". Does anyone have any better information? I have already read the book The Bipolar Disorder Survival Guide but can't get her to read it and I am getting a little strained.