Do you think I am “paranoid” and “childish”? Or “just a negative person”

A medic (irl) judged me in the harshest, ugliest terms, based on one conversation when he failed to listen... as some already know

Is it helpful or even accurate to judge anyone in those terms?

Do you judge someone based on one or two bad days? Especially when there are things going on in that persons life and relationships you have no idea about...

I have to admit I once (privately) judged someone as “paranoid” - in fact they were.

This was long long ago. They “over reacted” to a very mild expression of my frustration (with them, Their passive aggressive behaviour etc.....) And, more importantly, they were not open to forgiveness and mature discussion.

Especially in “these times” I find it sad when people continue to judge, label and other... but I suppose it’s the darker side of human nature that exists in all of us somewhere.

(not about anyone on pc, this is a general observation I have noticed over years kicking around on this planet.

I request no comments about the “situation” in the world in this thread.