It varies. Sometimes he'll announce, "I'm going to look at my watch now" - and then he looks at his watch and tells me how much time we have left. Today I felt anxious and kept looking at the clock and when there were a few minutes left he said "We need to be done at 4 - how much time do we have left?"
Then he'll ask how I want to end the session. Today I told him I wanted to go and sit behind his chair and just hang out with him while he saw other clients. He laughed. Usually, he comes and sits with me on the couch and holds my hands in his for a minute. Today he held my hands and apologized for something he said about a month ago that had been eating at me and that I finally told him about today.
Have I mentioned that I love him?
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