Hi Mary,

I wonder if we program a person on how to interact with us? Meaning if your upfront and open yourself up early will this lead him to be open and upfront with you. If you show him your not embarrassed to be possibly be embarrassed like showing a little jealousy early on or whatever other thoughts hell be more likely to act some what similarly.

Sometimes someone may say something personal and little do they know they just peaked my interest because I was able to relate to them even if I didn't say something back to show this.

Just food for thought. Best wishes as well.