So what is your original question? Or, maybe, I should ask, what is the question your heart wants to ask? My question would have been, will my kid be okay? But having yourself experienced divorced parents...I guess you know that answer.

Or maybe you want to know if you will be happier...but no one can tell you that. No one can tell you if your are doing the right thing.

I didn't want a divorce...but what would be the point of living with an unhappy person? Better to let them go.

That's all I have got. It isn't a clear subject for me to talk about.