Hello Same: I see this is your first post here on PC. Welcome to Psych Central.

I cannot be of any help with regard to your concern. (Perhaps there will be other PC members who will have thoughts they'll wish to share.) In the meantime here's a link to an article, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of ADHD in adults by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D. The article also provides links to additional articles on the subject:

ADHD: Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Guide | Psych Central

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.