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Originally Posted by seesaw
I didn't think you were trying to diagnose anyone. I could see you were trying to understand the difference, and I do think that dealing with someone who is just defensive is going to be different than if you know it's someone with NDP.
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I agree. I really didn't think the OP was diagnosing anyone but simply trying to understand the differences due to behaviours.
I also think it's a far stretch to say someone is "just being a jerk" when they're exhibiting some serious clusters of behaviours. People are trying to understand what is happening in their world with the people in their life. Yes, there are solutions to consider and many times those solutions can be risky to take on.
Unless personal names are being used, we're not technically labeling "anyone" on a some anonymous thread.