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Default Apr 23, 2020 at 03:10 AM
 
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Originally Posted by MsLady View Post
"Individuals who have not achieved object constancy /object permanence still relate to reality using the defensive of splitting. ... They cannot tolerate ambivalence (mixed feelings) hence the term, splitting. The individual who causes the frustration is seen as all bad, and if pleasurable, then all good."
An interesting observation from "outside" the person who has not "achieved" this perhaps but has it led to reliable ways to help them do that? If not, It's just another judgment and, essentially, a put down.
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