So basically no one is allowed to have their own self esteem and identity and everyone has to live according to your husbands needs. Is that the kind of man you want your daughter to marry? Do you want your children to grow up thinking they are only there to service the needs of others like they see you do for your husband?

If my husband woke me up and ordered me to go outside and wash the chalk off the driveway he would most certainly regret pulling that kind of crappy behavior on me. Were you a good girl and got up and did what he asked?