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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
“they can not tolerate ambivalence” - interesting. I do not have NPD, however a shrink in my forest wrote in my notes “she is already very ambivalent about this therapist” ... I could and can “tolerate ambivalence” I believe..  
I also think the words “individuals who have not achieved object constancy (etc) are not the optimal words to use and sound judgmental. The little that I have read in the “literature” about different disorders is mostly not to my taste... |
Psychological ambivalence in its pathological forms is not a problem that's exclusive to any one disorder, it's a common issue with many faces.
These things being written about are not about judging anyone. It's also not an accusation of anything. I also understand that it can sound like it is, especially if you're feeling vulnerable and/or misunderstood. No one likes to be judged harshly.
