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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Has he sent this to you in a video? Is that how you know? Yikes! His meltdowns are extreme and lasting a long time. Have you gone to the police with the videos? He needs a knock on the door from the police, right in front of his family, with them saying ‘knock off the harassing texts and videos, she’s married!’.
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Oh yes. I get dozens of videos a day still, with increasing levels of desperation. It occurred to me, how would he throw a tantrum and be cognizant of setting up the phone to tape it? It's like a kid who's mom walks away and he stops his tantrum and runs back in front of her to start again. The police already intervened once. I'm hoping the courts open more fully soon so I can do a TRO. I was told "only big cases are being heard right now" and unless I'm under an imminent threat I get to wait.
The hundreds of times I told him I was married just made him more determined because it fulfilled his big fantasy. In one of his recent videos he said he enjoyed being abusive towards me so he could get a reaction from me. I have saved that!
I'm keeping my katana close for a while.