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Originally Posted by Moose72
I have a pdoc appointment via phone on Monday. I just have no idea what to tell her- as usual. I don't think I've been having symptoms. My meds seem to be okay. I'm not manic like last year at this time. I am frustrated with this covid 19 whoopla. Its like a never-ending bad dream.
I finally called the section 8 people. Noah wants to know what he has to do if anything to move out. He is so gung ho on moving, but I talked with his gf's mother last night via text (she won't talk on the phone) and tried to have a conversation about his moving in with them, she just said, "I'm working overtime, I am pms-ing, and I don't want to talk about this right now" (paraphrased)! Excuses much? I mean this NEEDS to be talked about. The most she will say is that nothing is confirmed or written in stone right now. So she's just sitting there dangling living there over N3's head and he is making plans like changing jobs! To a job that is closer to where his gf lives, nevermind that he won't get near as many hours as he is right now. How will *I* be able to pay my bills if he moves out, etc.! Its a big cluster ****. Whenever I try to talk to him about it, he has easy answers and thinks he has it all figured out. But he doesn't! Yes I'm grumpy about this! /rant
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Sorry about your son .. But if his GF's Mom isnt all on board and ready to discuss details maybe shes not so sure that is what she is okay with..
I would imagine if he moves out that you will need to move into a smaller place as it would just be you instead with kids... unfortunately that will effect you on a big level..
Edit: Ok I just read your second post about your son.. what a mess , I was sure his moving out would certainly effect where you are living, Im sorry.
As for your son wanting to go to college he can while working, College kids and adults juggle both all the time.
If he moves out it will also effect your food stamp/EBT amount per month..
Often we as parents just have to stand back and watch our kids make lousy decisions and deal with the aftermath..
Maybe tell him your do not want to discuss it until he figures out he can finacially move out, I would think his GF's Mother will expect rent. he will need to buy food, Pay his cell bill, have money for the Bus to get back and forth to work and eventually out doing things once COVID allows for more social activities..
Sorry this is happening at legit the worst possible time ever
