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Old Apr 24, 2020, 06:32 AM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post

I'm tired of being treated like a creep and being accused of obsessing over someone. It feels like looking up to someone or otherwise giving a rats *** about them makes them mad. I know there might be a fine line (more like blurred line) between being nice and being creepy, but where is that line? There's too many grey areas. I can only understand his negative reaction if I was rude, but I wasn't. Likewise, I was never rude at Arby's either. Why is this so hard for me to understand?

Hi Ruby. What does your case worker say? Have you shared what you shared here with us with them? That you don't understand? Perhaps your case worker can help you with this? It's the difference between being professional and being unprofessional, and it seems you struggle with maintaining what are called professional boundaries.
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