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Originally Posted by ann bog
Hi, I would like to point out that flirting can be harmless and it is possible she doesn’t mean anything by it. Some girls don’t get along with other girls and might be looking for attention where she might be insecure or possible lonely or bored. If your jealousy is not something that concerns her, I would be concerned. She likely will be happy to receive more attention from someone who she has chosen to be in a committed relationship with. Just my two cents... I think the best thing to do is talk to her and decide where you both want the relationship to go. Maybe rekindle early romances or take your relationship to new places. Be careful not to poke too much or spark unnecessary arguments. It is also possible that some people are pushed away by their own insecurities and sometimes people simply grow apart..
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I agree with everything you said. You are spot on. I try to keep the romance alive. She just left for work. I smiled and was cheerful, told her I loved her. Kissed her. Listened attentively to her stories as she was getting dressed. Told her she had beautiful eyes. Gave her a big hug right before she left. I know these are all things she needs because I listen to her. I make sure I am doing everything I can to make her feel secure in the relationship. Problem is, I don't get the same in return. I just want her to at least agree that her behavior hurts me and that she will work on it. But she denies, redirects, avoids, lashes out instead. I am tired of it. I don't want to be with her anymore. I want to get strong and move on!