Sex is a guys way of cuddling if it was meaning less he would go out and have sex with anyone .Sex is his way of saying he loves you.Its a guy thing may not feel like love to you or is what you need at the time but thats way we are made.Gives woman a lot of power over us. If you use it right work his needs into yours .My self I love to cuddle which is now meaning less to my wife but i get depress alot like so it make me feel safe but much of anything ruins it.