Yes, Ruby. I agree with Bill. It’s a very personal remark to do in a profesional context.
I can figure out how bad you feel with such confusion. I understand you feel a little lost.
But, you are doing the right thing by asking yourself questions and going to therapy, working on knowing about boundaries.
So, go ahead.
Don’t be afraid, this supervisor don’t necessarily has to be like the previous one. I guess you feel like the outcast, “the different” but he’s only probably trying to keep boundaries stronger with you. But, you are also changing the knowledge and the attitude toward the situation so there are few probabilities the story happens again the same. Maybe, it’s not gonna be perfect, but changes take time.
How long have you being working for this supervisor?
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.
Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
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