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Originally Posted by divine1966
Ruby the issue isn’t that you are nice. You are but that’s not an issue. I think he might be behaving in cold and distant manner to put boundaries between you two and discourage you from being too personal. If you acted like you have a crush on him and was getting too personal, he can get in trouble if he encourages you. He is maybe sending you a message that you need to keep your distance.
You equate nice with inappropriate. You can be nice but keep your distance. These people aren’t your friends or loved ones, they are your bosses.
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He's just alot nicer to my coworkers. He used to be just as nice to me. I just didn't know better. People tell each other all the time they missed so and so at work. That's why I said it'll be hard that he'll be gone for vacation. People sometimes tell their coworkers they missed them. That's why I didn't know I was saying something wrong.
Before I made that comment, he treated me just fine. In fact, during that same day before I made that comment, he was still treating me just like everyone else. Sometimes it only takes one moment for things to go wrong.
BTW, is it normal for colleagues not to ask each other how they're doing? Cuz the ones I care the most about stopped asking me. Yet, I see them ask my coworkers how they're doing whether at Arby's or my current job. idk if my situation is common or not.