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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I’m sorry that something similar is happening in your own relationship. And good for you for calling him out on it and for standing up for your rights to respect. I agree with the thoughts in your email that you sent - 100%. Now what he does with that information? If he continues to do as he pleases and if he continues to hurt you in this way, he has no respect and no concern for your feelings. That’s just plain mean and hurtful.
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Thank you!
The email wasn't specific for the women issue, though. We had been talking about honesty in which he replied saying he "never intends to hurt me". How is that even slightly correct? We've had countless discussions about honesty, trust, respect, boundaries, loyalty, you name it.. it's been said. I was offended by his response. So I wrote it out like this. He thanked me for the email.. said it was very well written.. and he was going to address it with his counselor. It's a step.