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Old Apr 25, 2020, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted by downandlonely View Post
You do have to speak up when someone is violating your boundaries. However, there are times when it is best to keep quiet. Say they are having a political discussion at work and you disagree with most people. If you speak up, it won't change their minds and will cause unnecessary conflict. I am one who speaks my mind too often and unnecessarily, so I've learned that.

Yes this is very true. I’m seeing that sometimes the best way to watch out for myself is to not say very much at all in some situations. Many situations actually.
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