Wow, I'm Canadian so carrying guns like that is so not part of my reality. She could have had herself shot considering she was "afraid" of you. Her actions don't at all sound rational or safe. This story actually creeped me out.

I would go as far as changing your number and explaining to your higher ups the importance of keeping your new number confidential.

I get the whole coronavirus issue.. but are you able to take on a different job?

I agree with everyone.. stay away from her. Maybe the tracker was uncalled for but I suspect your gut instinct told you something was not right. Maybe next time, instead of the tracker, dump the woman. If you're having trust issues again, no amount of dialogue is going to change that.

I'd also work with a counselor to work on the trust issue so you can be more open and aware of the red flags coming at you before investing any great deal of time with trouble.

Sorry all this took place. I'm a bit disturbed now.