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Originally Posted by will19
My ex friend told me that, since he got married, it wouldn't be comfortable with him and his wife having a single guy tagging along.
I never had any kind of "feelings" (sexual attractions) for him. Though he one time confessed to me that he had attractions to other guys. Other people had suspected that he could have been gay.
I guess my friend has some kind of autism. He does that with other people also.
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I didn't realize you were a male. Sorry.
Is it possible your ex friend was sexually attracted to you? Either his wife knew about his interest in men and felt uncomfortable with you hanging around, or she didn't know about it and you were a distraction to him. Pure speculation, here.
I do find it odd he can't hang out with his 'guy buddy' without his wife. Interesting.
As for your current friend, you don't have to have ASD to be socially oblivious and akward. Having said that, I guess you'll have to make a choice.. end this friendship, knowing his potential "Autism" is the root cause.. or let it go with the understanding that your friend is unintentionally hurting you due to the suspected label.
Why does this ex friend bother you so much? It was such a long time ago. He expressed it would be "uncomfortable" for them.. he didn't question your character or anything else.