Sadly many people are quite flirty with others despite being married and often even in front of their spouses. I am not a flirty type and married to not a flirt so I can’t always understand it. But it’s something people do and they don’t think much of it.

Now I don’t really know if their spouses are just open to that. They might be embarrassed how their spouses act but don’t want to cause a fight so they act like it’s no big deal. Deep inside who knows what they feel.

I knew this couple, he always flirted with women. I remember his wife asking him once in a restaurant “how do you think it makes me feel that you flirt with every waitress?” And he was just laughing

Some people put up with a lot of upsetting and hurtful things in their marriages if they don’t want to get divorced or constantly fight. It doesn’t mean they are ok with it. They are just putting up with it. Of course there might be people who don’t get bothered by such things, but I bet there are very few. I’ve never met people who are ok with their spouses flirting

PS people who just roll their eyes when their spouse acts like an idiot might be doing so out of embarrassment, not because they think it’s ok