I'm going to have to step out of my comfort zone to handle this kind of thing. I came to psychcentral because sometimes there's just no one who will validate me irl. It's really hard for me to feel ok about myself if I think no one likes me. So I've found ways to cope. One way is to avoid confrontation with my sister because she is vile to me when she doesn't get her way.

You sensed the problem is with my husband. But I don't want to get into that.

My heart always goes before my head. If someone needs help, I forget to think about the impact it will have on me.