[QUOTE=Wild Coyote;6828515]I am glad you don't feel you have some type of a defect. You don't have a defect.

The things anyone else says/writes about you in a negative and/or a judgmental manner ... is their very own issue. Not yours.

This is what I always need to remember, about those who say/write anything about me in a negative and/or a judgmental manner, its their very own stuff... it never was mine

I sometimes journal