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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
I'm wondering if you tell her when you don't agree with many of the things she says? I don't need to tell her. Sometimes I get mad about it. Mainly she has a "this is how girls react/respond/do and this is how guys react / respond / do." I can't stand that. I'm more like "No xyz is how I react because of ABC" not because I'm male or female. It's her quirk and I'm not there to educate/ help her. She's not too mystic/new agey for me to work with. So when she goes down the it's a female thing. I tell her that's not natural for me. but that's my only complaint.
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I like that you do not subscribe to that. We are all male and female blended together. Our sex has little to do with it as some females identify more as male gender and some males more as female. I imagine she would struggle to understand someone who was truly a balance between the two. We can be more of one than the other in any given moment. I have learned a lot from gender specific judgments, but it is a blend of the two that has helped me to better understand myself.