ermm...i do agree with you but i think maybe i didn't explain what i meant in proper English.

i come from a very old-fashioned Highland family where women are reared from birth that they don't have choices. you do what your father tells you til you marry, then you do what your husband tells you forever.

so when i said that one thing i've learned at pc is people have choices...i meant that i'm learning that married or single, male or female ALL people have rights and "choice" is a right...i think?

apologies if i've offended you or taken what you've said the wrong way...but words on a screen are hard to interpret and...english isn't my first language and i still misinterpret a lot...ugh...i should shut up now.

Peace,
kj