It seems that I have somewhat adopted my daughter's (6 y/o) identity as my own. I have mentioned before that I have developed a "crush" on her "boyfriend". When she comes home from school I drill her on every interaction she had with the boy, and get get giddy when she says it was flirtatious. When I am getting her ready for school her hair and outfit have to be just so - she needs to look perfect for him. I have even given her advice on how to flirt with him. When I work in her classroom it makes me so happy to see him faun over her, he seems to be drawn to her like a magnet. I feel like the biggest loser writing this by the way, like I have absolutely no life of my own. I would like to have her life, it seems so much more fun. Has anyone else experienced similar feelings? Is there anything that can help me get my own life back?