Hi, thanks both for your replies.Yes I have experienced it in a couple of other relationships about a year+ in and the same with this one.Im I'm very lucky that my husband maintains he is very happy so I hope I will always make him happy, if anything it's feelings of unfulfillment in myself that have previously caused the breakdown of a relationship.

Unless Inlove as in literally still in the early phase of love(lust) the desire part just goes for me. I'm scared that I have fallen out of love with my husband just because Ive stopped desiring him not the other way round and that seems so fickle and inevitable given my history. Many Thanks X