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Old Apr 28, 2020, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted by guy1111 View Post
Again, not here to talk specifics, but my point was to compare my growth in one area "being yelled at" vs. tolerating strange behavior with single men.

Again, let's say when she's mad she just hisses and walks away. For some people with anger issues that could cause full on fit of rage. Now I say to you, all she did was hiss. You need to get your anger under control.

Fortunately for me, tantrums and the like don't bother me at all. I know that it comes from a place of hurt. I can see past it and look at why they are upset.
Growth is excellent to take note of -- but repetitive tantrums are not healthy in a relationship, neither is ranting, neither is slinging mud. That's all I can really say.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Apr 28, 2020 at 06:09 PM.
Thanks for this!
guy1111